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Work, Gratitude, and the Problem of the Current Second

I’m late to my very own get together, however April 1, 2020 marked twelve years since I give up my job as a lawyer to journey the world.

By now you guys know the drill: annually I wrote an annual replace submit for April 1st, about my frame of mind and the state of my enterprise. I’d often even have a get along with buddies to rejoice, wherever I used to be. In Saigon, it was a celebration with bun cha and rice vodka. In Oaxaca, it was mezcal and quesadillas.

This yr, the date fell through the lengthy trek again to Montreal from Florida. I used to be making an attempt to maneuver shortly sufficient to get dwelling safely, however sluggish sufficient to not exacerbate my spinal CSF leak.

Whereas I used to be technically on the highway on April 1st, the date concerned rather less celebration and somewhat extra pandemic than traditional.

Since at this time is my forty first birthday, I assumed I’d use the event to try this annual write-up.

Right here’s a submit about what’s occurring, and a few of what comes subsequent.

12 Years of Authorized Nomads

Well being smart, my leak is ongoing. Different continual points are ongoing.

Nonetheless, I’m right here at this time, alive, feeling cherished, looking for gratitude for what I can and remind myself that human connection is a part of what sees us via.

With elevated acceptance of my day-to-day actuality got here a way of elevated dissonance after I checked out Authorized Nomads. That smiling individual on a bike on my entrance web page is not me. Telling tales via meals is not me. These are a part of me, positive, and I’m pleased with no matter roads took me to them.

Nonetheless, I’d open my dashboard once in a while and suppose, “what am I even doing? Is there a degree to any of this anymore?”  Questions that many people are asking lately, and ones that take sharper kind as a result of the bodily alternative prices of working are so nice for me.

I really like writing, and my thoughts misses writing. Penning this submit in morning increments felt like coming dwelling. My physique, although, it doesn’t a lot like me writing. My leak signs worsen after I do and whereas I’ve tried artistic options like voice to textual content or transcription, they don’t scratch the writing itch. I really like the typing itself, the act of phrases falling out of my mind and rearranging themselves into prose.

So I made a decision I’ll do one thing somewhat extra drastic.

Killing my Darlings

With a view to create a great piece of writing, you usually must first cull these paragraphs or characters you’re feeling hooked up to although they not contribute critically to the entire. You must “kill your darlings” to make a better-working piece.

For me, killing my darlings outcomes not from decorative prose however from the bodily limitations on my capacity to work. Whereas my artistic time is limitless, the precise creating takes the type of bodily overhead I not have at my disposal. I’m divesting a number of the tasks I’ve clung to within the hopes that I’ll be capable of construct one thing thrilling for my group.

I’ve a half-finished writing course workbook, and a full define for a product for legal professionals who need to change careers.

Neither will probably be doable within the subsequent very lengthy whereas with my limitations. However the cause I needed to construct these merchandise was as a result of readers requested for them, and clearly had a necessity for them. So I’ve partnered with individuals I belief to repair these ache factors since I can’t.

How you can Inform Higher Tales in a Digital World: My Storytelling Course

I deliberate to do a storytelling course, and I’ve a half-completed workbook and lots of signal ups from readers. I’ve tried to consider ways in which I can do that venture whereas leaking, as a result of I love to show storytelling. In the meanwhile, I don’t suppose it’s doable to take action with out consuming into all my uptime.

So I’ve partnered with two individuals I belief to supply two totally different programs; which one may be greatest for you relies on your wants.

Storytelling Course with Lola Akinmade Åkerström

How can we craft and share these tales with others that may create empathy and reference to others? How can we cradle with care the accountability of telling different individuals’s tales? How do you hook, interact, intrigue, and preserve your readers all the best way to your closing message? How will you discover threads and narrative arcs to construction your story?

These are all questions Lola addresses in her complete course about storytelling.

The course is self-paced, and contains lectures, video modules, and many case research and examples for example the teachings Lola teaches. Lola simply launched this course, and I contacted her to see if I might refer my readers her manner as a result of it’s an amazing different to what I deliberate to do.

Lola has provided $50 off for Authorized Nomads readers for those who let her know that’s the place you got here from for the course.

Running a blog Course with Mike Sowden

I’ve additionally referred a few of you to my buddy Mike*, who has a course referred to as Interact! A Storytelling Course for Bloggers. Lots of readers aren’t bloggers and thus desire a broader extra technical story instruction, which Lola can present. For individuals who are within the running a blog world, and/or don’t have the finances for a bigger course,Mike’s course is a good choice.

His course is self-paced over 8 weeks, aimed toward educating bloggers easy methods to be a greater storyteller. It contains e mail classes, audio classes, PDF guides (together with my fave, “How To Edit The S#!t Out Of Your Writing”), and 1:1 help from Mike.

He has provided a $15 low cost for Authorized Nomads readers: enter the code donkeyballs2020 or use this hyperlink to buy.

*Mike additionally kindly edited this submit, and lots of others, for me. Mike is an efficient set of eyes to your mind.

Leaving Legislation Behind with Casey Berman and Adam Ouellette

My Thrillable Hours sequence exists to encourage legal professionals feeling deadened by their job choices to seek out the braveness to suppose extra broadly. I created it to assist with worry, profession change, and life after regulation. Although I additionally had plans to make a course to assist legal professionals take a leap, I didn’t get to complete it.

Casey and Adam have, and so I’m partnering with them to repair the ache level a few of my readers have. They’ll assist legal professionals via the method of leaving the regulation, if that’s what they need, and assist them overcome the blocking beliefs and self-sabotage that may get in the best way. In addition they present their college students with interview and résumé assist, in addition to help to permit legal professionals to hone in on what different profession is greatest for them.

Principally, if I can’t aid you I really feel that Adam and Casey can at Go away Legislation Behind.

The plan is to hopefully document a video interview with them, too, for Authorized Nomads readers.

The “Ask a Jodi” Podcast

A couple of years in the past, I purchased the area Ask a Jodi and thought I’d do movies answering questions readers had about life and every thing after. It was really my sitting on the bottom to dig out a tripod from my drawer that led to my re-opening the leak in 2018.

I shelved the video concept because it was infeasible, and with the bodily pressure this yr’s posts about COVID-19 took on me, I made a decision that writing would wish to return second to one thing else.

I’ve lengthy stated I’d write if nobody have been studying. However sadly as I stated, my physique and writing don’t get on as properly. So a brief (10-15 min) podcast is the place I netted out, particularly to reply the numerous questions I obtain from readers about resilience, grief, hope, and a lot extra.

This can take time for me to get off the bottom, as a result of I’ve discovered every thing takes extra time while you’re sick. I look ahead to sharing it, when it’s prepared.

When you’ve bought a query for me that you just’d like me to handle in a podcast episode, I’ve made a Google Kind right here so that you can ship it my manner.

Redesigning Authorized Nomads

This web site began on Blogger and moved to WordPress in 2010. It’s gone via fairly a couple of resdesigns since 2008.

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It’s been a couple of years, and this time the redesign will streamline current classes into a couple of predominant ones, and hyperlink out to the programs and assets I’ve listed above. I additionally need to brighten up the colors and replace the photographs and ‘about’ web page to replicate the transitions I’ve gone via over the past years.

I’ll even be altering my slogan from “Telling Tales Via Meals” to “Curious About The whole lot.” The brand new slogan higher displays my current, although it is also all the time who I’ve been.

Audio recordings for Accessibility

A few of my readers who’ve CSF leaks (spinal or cranial) or who’re chronically in poor health have requested if it will be doable to document posts in audio kind, particularly those about meditation and my leak journey. My objective is to document these earlier than I begin the podcast, warming as much as audio for starters but additionally making it simpler to entry content material for the individuals who discover studying troublesome.

Publication Again Up and Operating

Hyperlinks I Cherished was a publication I began to share the fascinating hyperlinks that I learn, together with these I shared on Twitter. I’ve had the publication disabled for the final yr and a half as a result of my ache ranges fluctuate sufficiently that I felt I couldn’t decide to placing it out each month as promised.

With the redesign and the podcast, I’m beginning it up once more. It’s going to home a couple of nice reads in addition to basic updates from my work, and podcast planning, and extra. You possibly can join right here.

Supporting Authorized Nomads

That is the query I get probably the most from you all: “how can I help you?”

I really feel extremely fortunate to have an unimaginable, caring group. I say this usually, and can proceed to say so. Even throughout these bewildering occasions when nearly everybody’s actuality has turn into warped, you continue to attain out to make sure that I’m holding up okay.

As with final yr, the best help is by way of an Amazon reward card to, which is the place I get a number of the harder-to-find gadgets that aren’t accessible on the grocery retailer. With COVID-19, my neighbours/household/buddies have helped with groceries, and ordering from Amazon means individuals don’t need to go trying to find tiger nut flour.

There’s additionally my Patreon, which I launched primarily based in your request! I really like the intimate group there.

Truthfully, there isn’t a lot else in the mean time! Assist the podcast when it launches, and share my work if it resonates. The care I want day-to-day is probably the most urgent, and fortunately I’ve household (and now neighbours and buddies!) to assist with grocery runs through the pandemic, and who drop by for socially distanced visits whereas it’s nonetheless heat.


My buddy Cheryl, who I’ve featured right here, says her life mantra is LSAT. That she’s a former lawyer makes this humorous, because it’s not the LSAT of our nightmares. Her LSAT means love, give up, acceptance, and belief.

Loads tougher to embody than worry and anger and loathing.

Loads simpler to say than do.

And but, a worthy use of psychological time and vitality.

Each second you’re not in a state of give up, you’re in a state of lack.

That’s what will get me via every day.

Jodi Ettenberg Legal nomads
A February Florida soup journey. Definitely worth the ache!

Effectively, that and soup.




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